Homemade wedding gift idea

Learn your new neighborhood in a friendly fashion

After settling into our new home, my son and I visited our neighbors to introduce ourselves. We gave each a card with our names, address, and phone number so they could reach us. We also took along a homemade map of the area; as we visited each house, I wrote the residents' names and phone numbers next to the appropriate places. This experience taught my son how to introduce himself to others, warmed us up to our neighborhood, and helped us when the dogs wandered off.

Terri Duffy Seattle, Wash.

Toddler finds sandbox treasures

My only child is 2 years old, and it's hard to keep her occupied for any length of time. I recently came up with an activity that holds her attention for quite a while. Without her knowing, I planted large seashells (that she can't swallow) in her sandbox. Now and then, while digging, she discovers one of these treasures. She's so pleased that she keeps looking for more!

Raeann J. Auton Coconut Creek, Fla.

"Shopping" for scattered toys is mom's pick-up scam

Try this fun way to get your youngsters to pick up their scattered toys. Go shopping! I give each child a shopping bag with handles. We go from room to room looking for objects to "buy." When someone spots something that belongs to her, she drops it in her bag. After we've hit all the "stores," we go to our respective rooms to put away our "purchases." Voila!

Catherine Velleco Fairfax Station, Va.

Family tips make wedding gift

Because my family received so many wedding invitations, I needed an affordable, yet unique, idea for gifts. I decided that my 25 years of marital wisdom would be a valuable gift, so I started writing down tips about things I wish I'd known when I was first married. I ended up with advice on money management, shopping, cooking, family affairs, and even sex. I've been giving this wedding gift for 10 years now, and the young brides say it's their favorite present.

Paulette Munn Camden, S.C.

Simple method for reaching your kids

As my older children entered their preteens, I noticed they were uncomfortable asking certain questions or sharing particular thoughts. I gave all the children a tablet, and told them anything they wrote on it was to be seen only by them and me. When a tablet appeared on my bed with a question or comment, I'd respond and return the tablet to a private spot in his or her room. Even my 5-year-old participated by drawing pictures on her tablet.

Jane Timmons Frankfort, Ind.

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